“Some Women Can’t Say The Word ‘Lesbian’… Even When Their Mouth Is Full Of One”

It’s mid-January, the dead of winter in many places. From what I hear, people can become depressed around this time of year.

Although I live in Southern CA, and we’re finally getting some relief from a heat wave that sent temperatures close to 90, I watch the news. I see how a lot of people, especially those in the North East, are having to deal with severely cold weather.

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According to Dictionary.com:

re⋅dun⋅dant

/rɪˈdʌndənt/  [ri-duhn-duhnt] 
–adjective

1.	characterized by verbosity or unnecessary repetition in expressing ideas; prolix: a redundant style.

What I mean by this is, saying “Lesbians have issues” is redundant because lesbians, by definition, have issues. 99% of them. Myself included.

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Sorry everyone, for not blogging in the last few days. I moved and didn’t have internet access until today. I seriously felt like I was going through withdrawals. I guess there are worse things to be addicted to than the internet. However, as they say, the first step is admitting you have a problem. Anyway…..

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HAPPY NEW YEAR! I hope you all had a great New Year’s Eve.

Before we jump into the reality that always slaps us in the face right after the holidays, I need to tell you what I saw on New Year’s Eve.

Now, I don’t consider myself naive by any means. However, what I saw that night makes me wonder. And, it makes me ask the question, what is it with gay boys?

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Many times lesbian sex is sited as the ideal porn for straight men. And by lesbian sex I mean two rail thin bleach blonde’s with knockers that could suffocate a grown man and his fantasy football team. Sometimes I think that’s why real lesbians are put off by porn. [Read more →]

I hope you had a great Christmas. If not, I trust that you’re at least happy that it’s over.

I spent the day with my family yesterday. We don’t get together often enough and I had a great time.

But, as always, I had to deal with my niece and nephews who appear to be both fascinated and bewildered by the fact that Auntie is a “lesbian.”

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If you haven’t heard yet, the sixth, and last, season of “The L Word” will premiere on Showtime on January 18, 2009.

The point of this post will not be, surprisingly enough, a rant of how little reality “The L Word” gives us of real life (even though it doesn’t!).

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Last night was Sunday. Since we only have two bars in Orange County that are “gay” for literally just a few hours a week, I try to make it every Sunday, even though I’m not really into country music or line dancing. I do like to watch, though.

Anyway, I decided to do some research for my blog while I was there. Interesting results, I gotta tell you.

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So, I was at a party last night. At one point I found myself sitting with a friend by the fire. She says to me “Oh my god! I forgot to tell you the dirt!” I smile and settle in for some good gossip.

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My last post touched on something that I have a lot more to say about, so today, that’s what I’ll be talking about.
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